It’s ironic how the one thing we all want most is the one thing that sometimes seems so hard to find. Especially a true lasting romantic love. And what makes it even more elusive is it’s beyond our control when and sometimes how it happens. But we all deserve it and can have amazing romantic love, problem is often we stand in our own way. One of those ways is feeling unworthy of love.
Even when all else in your life seems so easy to get going or accomplish you can’t shake that thought that says “I’m too this for love, or I’m unlucky in love”. Well it’s not true, and no it isn’t easy to find love but it definitely is within your control showing up in a way that love will come your way.
Why you may feel unworthy of love
I totally get it, I have been there without even knowing it. Because for so long I was told women who got married or were in a loving relationship were petite without even realising it I decided that for me like me at nearly 6ft it was going to be mission impossible. Although I was up to the task of this having this mindset meant I showed up expecting love to be difficult and guess what it always was.
So dig deep and be honest about why you may feel unworthy of love. Could feeling unworthy of love be subconsciously what’s preventing you from having that amazing partner? Because that’s just it there is someone for everyone so unless you have unhealthy habits, have a toxic mindset then love if you should want it is also looking for you.
Figure out what story you’ve been telling yourself and smash it to pieces! Because 90% of the time it’s crap. There is no age limit, size limit, colour limit to love.
It comes down to knowing your worth and making a commitment to bring forward your best self.
Of course that amazing long lasting love doesn’t just happen, no it happens when you show up with positivity, and commitment to being your most authentic, healthy and beautiful self. It happens when you decide to choose a partner based on your core values and purpose not your ego. It requires you to trust that you deserve and you can have true love.
It is time to let go and forgive past mistakes, to challenge your mind when it tries to convince you that you need to be perfect to have love. Make the decision to break these old habits, and to start taking steps towards feeling worthy and preparing yourself for love.